To The One Who Understands...

Flowers die...
but the memories of moments spent together live on...


A friend of mine in the Caribbean got me something for Valentine's day and I couldn't send her anything as I didn't have her address. I told her I felt bad about that and I really wanted to send something. She told me that the "Good Luck" card I sent her before her exam on Monday was the most special thing ever. She explained, "You know when one is stressed out in the middle of exams and your mind is so boggled and you just want to give up and then you see that someone is thinking of you and they cared and are there rooting for you; that card and the fact that you remembered me right before my exam meant so much to me that it motivated me to work harder and do better. Thank you for that, that seriously was the best gift!" :-/


I almost cried when she said that! Do you know how many times I feel the same? And when you're drowning in work and you feel like you just can't go one and then you get that one call, card, or message from a special someone who lets you know that he/she is thinking of you--it let's you know what you're fighting for in this life and why you're slogging your butt, trying to do it! You are soo sweeet, Noly and have such a big heart!! If we didn't fight, we wouldn't appreciate the good times! You are TRULY, the only one who understands the interpersonal connection and intimacy I want in my relationships with all the people in my life (I REALLY MEAN THIS!) and you Always manage to say and do just the right thing! :-)


Thank you soo much for the flowers! They are really pretty! But, I would have seriously preferred you coming here! Flowers die...but the memories of moments spent together live on... True that you created a moment for me today and they're really pretty and I love them, don't get me wrong, but you coming here just has a whole new meaning! :-) You know that, nah? It's okay, you're excused and forgiven! :-) Anybody else, I'd never forgive...!!! Really, they simply would over exhaust their excuses!!! I'd be sick of hearing their excuses every time!!! You've just done so much for me in the past that you've earned that place in my life! I know it would cost you a $700 plane ticket and two flight changes in order to make it here tom... :-) and i know that if I wanted you to, you'd really do it for me in a heartbeat...


The fact that you'd still come, even now, despite it being so much trouble means so much...!!! that's what true friendship really is.. being there for each other...!! realizing when one needs you... and you've always been there for me whenever I've needed you and haven't missed any big day of my life since I've met you! THAT's KUDOS TO YOU GIRL!!! There's no one else in this world that I can say that about! You've really ALWAYS been there for me!!! Do you know how much that means to me and how special it makes me feel? You've always been there and you give me that secure feeling of ALWAYS being there in the future...I don't get that feeling from anyone... so yes, of course I prefer for one to come here in person...that would mean so much...!!! Now YOU AND FLOWERS at my door is a WHOLE NEW FAIRYTALE!!! ;-) I LOVE YOU BABE!!!

HAPPY EVE OF VALENTINE! <333